From the category archives:

Styling

 

I’d seen rave reviews about Vanessa Half Wig La Jay (Color 1B). We all know how hard it is to find a wig that resembles natural hair without being silky smooth or crazy looking. Even though the pictures of the wig on the model  looked kind of crazy, I still went ahead and ordered it due to the reviews.

I ordered from Amazon.com and the total cost ended up being around 24 dollars. I always get the same color as my natural hair since my goal is to emulate my own hair as much as possible.

It arrived promptly and once I tore open the bag, I saw how huge this sucker is. I’d seen in the reviews that it was a lot of hair, but seeing as I have a lot of hair anyway, I didn’t think I’d be fazed.

It is a lot of hair. Even to me. Especially for a half wig.

I was fluffing it up and getting a better look at it when my 12 month old comes toddling over, points to the wig and said “dawg”, gave it a pat, and toddled away. Silly girl, she doesn’t know about Mommy’s hair obsession yet.

There were some frizzy areas on mine which is perfect. I didn’t find it to be particularly shiny but I did pat a little cornstarch on it just to be safe. It is a synthetic wig and has two combs that attach near the crown and at the nape, though I may be cutting out the comb at the nape.

So I decided to go ahead and try it out. Warning, this first time was a disaster!

I washed my hair, deep conditioned, rinsed, and set to styling. After applying moisturizer, I did some ill formed, terrible looking cornrows.

Sopping wet, huge cornrows! Next time I think I will do them on dry stretched hair. (Side note: A lot of you newly natural ladies write to me about how you feel like you just can't style your hair and you wish you could do your hair like I do mine. For what it's worth, when I tell you that you just have to practice and experiment, you really do! I've been wanting to learn how to cornrow for a long time. I have not been practicing it and that's why I still suck at it. This is the closest I have come to getting it right, but the main thing is that I know that if I keep trying, I will get it right! And you will too!)

Anyway, even though they looked horrible, my hair was moisturized and protected in the area the wig would cover.

I thought long and hard about whether or not I should trim the wig. First, I was afraid of messing it up. Sure it was only 24 dollars, but, shoot it’s a recession (I have been waiting to say that!)

Second, I wasn’t sure how it would look on my head anyway, so I thought it best to wear it out first and see how I felt about it as it was. I have a big head so what might look huge on some people looks appropriate on me.

I viewed quite a few suggestions online as how to wear La Jay. I settled on a puff-like style. I hesitated to do a puff because my ends are still recovering from the horrors of postpartum shedding,  but I knew if I didn’t pull it back too tight, I’d be ok.

I just applied moisturizer to the front of my hair and tried to scrunch the ends a bit. I then applied the wig and brushed all the hair back lightly, followed by an ouchless band to make the puff. At first, I thought it looked great and blended pretty well with the rest of the hair.

Then it dried.

The difference in the textures looked pretty obvious in the mirror but once I took pictures, I was a little ashamed that I’d worn it out like that! I was also surprised because several people thought it was my real hair. I also realized, after I took picture, that I had a bit of a cornrow showing. Bleh!

That looks a little better but you can see the start of that darn cornrow above my ear. Fingerparting is getting me in trouble, lol.

In addition to my own mistakes, the wig also was too long for my taste. My fro does not fall like that so I took it off when I got home and got to cutting.

As you can see, I didn’t cut that much but what I did cut made a world of difference.

The next day, I tried again. Oh, and here is how much hair I left out.

I loosely braided it up over night.

I thought about trying the style I’d seen in this video because I thought it would be easier to blend. I may still try that style, but  I ended up rewetting and using Fantasia IC gel  and my Denman to define my curls in the front. I really didn’t want to use a gel and I can’t tell you the last time I’ve used one, but I was curious to see if it would work.

I’m no expert on wigs, but I’d say it turned out pretty well!

 

Back--None of that hair is mine...very pretty though!

I just used a few bobby pins to pin my hair back from the forehead area.

My edges are growing back nicely, so I pretty much left them alone instead of brushing them back. The wig and my hair ended up covering them nicely.

Overall, I give this wig 2 thumbs up. I’ll be wearing it the rest of this week and also a lot in the near future. I’ll try to update how it holds up to wear and tear and any other styles I try out with it.

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PJ alert! I’m kinda late on this one, though! I am heavily eyeing the heat styling line from Carol’s Daughter. Here’s some info I received about it.

What is it? A thermal protective range of styling products that gives you the freedom to style without the worrisome damage.

What’s the story? Backed by the newest miracle ingredient Macadamia Oil, each product in the new Carol’s Daughter Macadamia Collection is designed to prevent damage caused by the wear and tear of daily heat-styling with tools such as flat irons, pressing combs and curling irons.  Macadamia Oil is comprised of a high concentration of the natural compound, oleic acid — which keeps human eyelids soft and supple, even after opening and closing over 14MM times per year – to promote ultimate protection, moisture and shine. Like all Carol’s Daughter products, they are free of parabens, petroleum, mineral oil and artificial color.

Macadamia Heat Styling Hairspray ($17.00): A lightweight heat-protecting formula that delivers lasting hold without residue, this blend of super-ingredient Macadamia Oil and Honey Extract restores hair health.

What’s the recipe?

·                     Macadamia Oil: Creates a protective barrier against heat styling tools

·                     Honey Extract: Helps to seal and smooth split ends

·                     Henna Extract: Smoothes the cuticle to protect against damage and enhance shine

Macadamia Heat Setting Foam ($18.00): Made with heat-protecting, super-ingredient Macadamia Oil and Honey Extract, this lightweight, creamy foam is perfect for roller-setting, curling or wrapping hair.

What’s the recipe?

·                     Macadamia Oil: Protects against high temperatures from styling tools

·                     Honey Extract: Prevents and smoothes split ends

·                     Henna Extract: Smoothes the cuticle to protect against damage and enhance shine

All Macadamia Products are available at www.carolsdaughter.com.

Alrighty, I had planned to straighten my hair sometime around the end of September, so I will probably be trying these out. I originally thought to order this duo:

But the hairspray sounds more my speed. Though I’m interested in the gloss, the mist doesn’t sound all that great. So I’ll be ordering the hairspray and gloss. I bet the smell is amazing.

Has anyone tried these products? What did you think of them?

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You may remember the lovely Khaya: a lovely teen with a lovely newly natural head of hair. Her mom, Maria, was kind enough to send us an update!

Hi KCurly,

Here is an updated pic of Khaya after her big chop. She loves her hair but misses it. It’s growing fast!

Maria

Thanks Maria and Khaya! It certainly is growing!

Here’s Alex with a video about how to get a Badu ‘fro without heat….even with straight ends!

Hey,

I’m sure you get a million emails a day so I’ll keep it short. I wanted to share a video with you and all my other naturals out there. My hair story is somewhat unique in that, I’ve never actually had a perm or texturizer. I’ve been natural all my life, yet I still had to transition about a year ago from heat damage. Having been used to having long hair all my life, and with the texture in the back of my hair pretty much intact, I refused to BC. Thus, I found all sorts of ways to disguise my straight ends and texture my hair. That unfortunate event opened up a whole new world to me when it came to discovering the versatility of my hair. Hair typng has really become a moot point to me, since with the right product selection and styling technique, I’ve been able to achieve pretty much any texture under the sun.

My video demonstrates how I get a huge Erykah Badu style fro, with absolutely NO heat- straight ends and all. I think it will be a huge help to those transitioning AND women natural who are all looking for a way to rock that showstopper fro. Some of my favorite products are Jane Carter’s spray leave in, Trader Joe’s shampoo and conditioner and my homemade shea butter and alor mixtures. I’ll include a picture, and the link to the video. I hope you like it!

Alex! I do indeed like it! Very nice and I’m sure it will be of help to a lot of people! Thanks for sharing!

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Beauty is the business of Tania Chandler. With over 10 years experience in the industry, she has been reconized as the natural hair care expert. Specializing in caring, styling & reparing locs, double strand twists, pressing, weaves, & her favorite – easing clients through the process of transitioning back to Nappyness ;) . She prides herself on staying educated & keeping up with the latest trends. Her work has been featured in film/TV, print, runway, and everyday beauties such as yourself! She currently services clients in Baltimore, MD and Central PA.

As a natural hair care artist, I hear too many horror stories about naturals going to a hair stylist who claims they do natural hair. And unfortunately, these stylist are not always able to back up their claim. So here you will find the top 6 questions to ask during the consultation, and what to look for when your searching for a professional to care for your natural wonder :-)
1. What type of products do you use?!? – I can not stress it enough. Product is sooooo important. A stylist that specializes in natural hair care will maintain the integrity of your hair by using products that are healthy for the hair. Now that doesn’t mean that every product will be organic or even 100% natural. However, that does mean that they will have a nice mixture of natural products like shea butters, olive oil blends, vitamin E, etc. with professional salon brands such as Design EssentialsAshea Haircare, Mizani, Kera Care etc.

I highly recommend staying away from stylist who use a lot of petroleum and/or mineral oil based products. They are not healthy for the hair, especially locs. They leave heavy build up on the hair.

For the Top 10 uses for Olive Oil, click here.

2. What is your speciality? This is a very valid question. Just because someone who specializes in natural hair does not mean that they are an expert in all areas of natural hair. I have plenty of stylist friends who are excellent at maintenance of locs but are not that versatile in creative styling of long locs. Also when transitioning from relaxer back to natural, it’s very important to find a stylist who works with clients such as yourself. Transitioning can be a delicate time period, and because of the 2 different textures, some natural hair stylist are not familiar with caring and styling the hair while it’s in that state.

3. What styling options do I have? – You can test your potential stylist on their knowledge of natural hair by asking them about your styling options. This will hopefully give you an opportunity to consider some styling options that you haven’t thought of yet and allow open communication with your stylist. Also this is the perfect time to discuss with your stylist about any concerns you may have and also get an idea of how the style will look on you.

4. Do you have any pictures? – This is great because it gives both the stylist and the client a visual. A lot of times things aren’t always interpreted correctly. And it does not have to necessarily be an actually portfolio of the stylist’ work (that would be best) but at least a few magazines that will allow you and the stylist to clearly see what is expected.

5. How much will this cost? – This is pretty much self explanatory but be sure to be very clear of how much your visit will cost and all that’s included in the cost. Ask will the price include a trim or does it include a deep conditioning, etc. In some places those things are extra. No one likes the surprise bill at the end!

6. How do I care for this at home? – Your stylist should automatically discuss this with you but if they don’t, make sure to ask. This is one of the most important topics I discuss with my clients because I want us to be on the same page. I want them to be conscious of the products they use at home and how they are using them. You as the client want to make sure that you are able to keep that fresh out of the salon look until your next appointment. So ask this question with intentions of getting a few products to keep the look up and some options on styling at home.

Do not be timid when it comes to ‘interviewing’ a potential stylist. You are spending good money for a service and it’s our business, as hair stylist, to ensure your satisfaction!

Peace, Love & Enjoy Your Natural Wonder!
Tania

Read more from Tania at www.YourNaturalWonder.com and www.naturalhairbytania.webs.com

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Here are three styles, one of my own included, from three different ladies. I just love the versatility of natural hair and this post is proof of it. First up, Solange:

Hey Ms Lady,

I just wanted to share my style success. I love seeing a new style online and trying to replicate it myself. Some times it works out, some times not so much! LOL But this time it did. Please tell the lovely Natural Diva from Bermuda to keep sending style pics. She has a fly TWA that is blooming pretty fast so I know I can keep getting style tips from her even though my hair is at a different length than hers. Thanks for all you do!! 2010 will bring great things!

Solange, I’m glad you were able to get some inspiration from Bermuda’s last TWA styling post. It turned out beautifully and I love the color on you!!Thanks for sharing!!

Now we have “Ami”, a coworker and friend of mine, who is a mostly straight natural who transitioned long term to get rid of her relaxed ends.

She just recently cut the last of them off and dabbles in both straight and curly styles. Check out her bantu knot out on blow dried hair! Bantu knot outs are a great way to add some bounce to a straight style without using added heat. Ami used coconut oil beforehand.

OK, so now there’s little ole me. I am still rocking my twists, but in (what else?) a bun.

Wow, how do we naturals ever get by without the versatility of relaxed hair?

Oh well, I guess we make do ;)

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Once again BermudaBeauty shares her styling ideas for her blossoming TWA. See her other articles here and here. Check out her fotki for more of her beautiful hair.

I am presently 11 months post relaxer/8 months post bc and I am proud to say my hair is growing by leaps and bounds! Styling the TWA can be challenging because it is too long to continue the styles I was using and still too short to style my hair the way I would like to. I know I am not alone in the frustration of twa styles. That is why I have included some styles and techniques for your readers. Hopefully they will find these styles helpful. For more twa styles please feel free to view my fotki at www.fotki.com/bermudabeauty.

Happy Hair Growing, Bermuda Beauty

Cornrolls: Done on freshly co-washed hair. You can also wear your hair like this and put a wig or a hat on

Slick to a pony tail: Used Ecostyle Olive Oil Gel on damp hair.

Two Strand Twist: Put my hair in about 24 twists while wet. Used Ecostyle Olive Oil Gel to make the two strand twist then went under a hooded dryer .

Press & Curl: Done professionally. Beware your hair may not be as curly as it once was after curling your hair.

Flat Twists & Two Strand Twist Combination: just add a few twists on the side and secure with bobby pins and/or hair pins.

Flat Twists & Two Strand Twist up in a Pony Puff: pulled my hair Up in a puff and secured all the way around with bobbypins.

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Thanksgiving Hair

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We had a good Thanksgiving. My hair has been on my mind all week, but, despite intending to put twists in, I have been wearing the puff. Ug, lazy Kcurly! Seriously, I’ve also been fighting a cold for 2 weeks. My child and I keep exchanging it. For Thanksgiving, I decided to kill two birds [...]

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My tips for twists done on dry hair

October 18, 2009

I got a few questions about how I do twists. So here are a few tips. Hopefully, one day I can get around to making a video tutorial or at least a pictorial. The following are techniques that helped my twists to look better compared to what they used to be. These are just for [...]

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Today’s Hair–yesteday, that is

August 13, 2009

Yesterday’s hair: Cowashed with Suave Coconut Conditioner Applied KBB hair milk Applied KCCC Used up the last of my Hairveda Almond Glaze (*weeps*) Tied back with a scarf, lower left bow

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Rinsing a twist out

July 28, 2009

Why rinse a twistout? To refresh an old twist out Working out or sweating For moisture Tips for rinsing a twist out: Use a soft shower spray to rinse. A powerful spray will disrupt the twistout pattern. Squeeze the water in but do not rub or manipulate the hair too much. When drying, again, squeeze [...]

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Bantu Knot Out results

June 14, 2009

I took the knots out yesterday. It was very interesting to hear the reactions from people at work before I took them out. One person called them “Cinnamon Rolls”, someone said my hair was “all balled up”, I got double takes quite often (LOL!) and my knots got a friendly tap here and there all [...]

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Bantu Knots Take 2 (or is it 3?)

June 11, 2009

I had planned to part diligently when doing these knots, but I hate parting my hair. I suppose that’s why I always end up fingerparting. I fingerparted for the most part with some comb parts. I think these turned out rather well. not exactly what I pictured and I think I can improve on them [...]

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Today’s Hair

May 19, 2009

How did I forget that I wanted to do buns so badly? I’ve been wearing my hair out for days now and it really needed a break. I haven’t been swimming yet this week so I was trying to think of the best style that could be done in the least amount of time. I [...]

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Grow it! Give-a-way and straight hair madness

May 7, 2009

So I know I said that the Kcurly’s Favorite Things would be my last give-a-way for awhile, but I recieved my additional copy of the book along with this too cute bag from Chicoro the other day. Therefore, one you of you lucky readers will be able to win this (the book, that is). Me [...]

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Straightened once more

May 5, 2009

Sorry there was no post yesterday. It was my birthday and I wanted to take it easy. I went ahead and straightened since I’d wanted to do it one more time before the summer kicked in. After this I’m going on a personal No Heat Challenge until the fall. The humidity is killer where I [...]

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