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Transitioning into a NewlyNatural

Here’s a story from a  long term transitioner with a gawjess mane of hair! Thanks for sharing your journey Napturally Obsessed! See more of her on Fotki and YouTube

How long have you been natural? How long did you transition?

I have been 100% natural for two years and six months. My last relaxer was June 2008. I transitioned for 24 months, cutting off the remaining relaxed ends June 2010.

 What have been your biggest obstacles to overcome?

My biggest obstacle was shrinkage. I transitioned for so long because I’ve always been used to length, but little did I know that my hair would shrink 75% of its stretched length; therefore, I set and accomplished a length goal, by wearing protective styles 90% of my first two years natural.

What are your favorite styles to wear?

My hair does best in a stretched state, so I’m not a wash n go kind of girl. My “go to” style is a twist-out. I wear a lot of twist-out variations and buns. Lately, I’ve been experimenting with rod sets.

What are your favorite products?

My favorite product is Trader Joe’s Nourish Spa. It is a rinse-out conditioner, but I use it as a co-wash, leave-in, and styler. Another product I love is raw Shea butter. I infuse it with natural oils to seal my hair and oil my scalp, and I also use it as a body moisturizer.

Any advice for the newly natural ladies out there?

To the transitioners and newly natural sistahs, go natural for the right reasons, not hoping to have someone’s texture; be patient and practice healthy hair practices and you will retain length beyond your imagination. I did.

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Congrats LaShon! I am loving that curly fro! You can see more of LaShon at her blog.

 

How long did you transition?

I transitioned for 2 years and then in February 2012 I cut off the last 2 inches of relaxer.

What styles did you transition with?

I transitioned with braidouts, braids and buns.

What are your favorite products so far?

It’s really hard for me to pick a favorite product as I am a certified product junkie but I can’t live without my spray bottle with water and oils, my tangle teezer, coconut oil and almond oil.

What do you love most about your hair?

I love the curls and thickness of my hair. I’ve worn my hair straight for so long that I didn’t even know my hair had curls! The texture of my hair was a complete surprise to me.

List any opposition/problems you faced along the way.

I didn’t face any opposition but I was surprised to find out that my grandmother who loves everything I do was not a fan of my curly hair. She’s old school so she prefers it straight.

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Tia, love the hair, girl! Thanks for being a shining example that  transitioning long term is always an option when choosing to go natural. Check out more of Tia’s videos (and her to-die-for hair) below or on her channel

 

How long have you been natural? How long did you transition?

I transitioned for about 18 months and have been natural for almost 6 months.

What styles did you transition with?

The first couple of months of my transition I did roller sets and wore head bands to blend the two textures. My natural hair eventually grew out of this after three months, so I started doing twist outs, braid outs and other curly styles to blend the textures. I used perm rods on the ends of my hair to help blend my relaxed and natural hair when I did braid and twist outs.

During the last two months of my transition I started using curlformers and bunning. You can see pictures of these styles in my Natural Hair Journey:

What are your favorite styles to wear?


I like to do braid and twist outs, and I normally put it into a puff or I do a half up half down style. I have a video of my post BC styles on youtube:

What are your favorite products so far?


I like Giovanni’s direct leave-in, this is the only product that I have used during my transition and after my transition. I normally used the leave in every week after I wash and when I do braid and twist outs. Lately, I’ve also been using shea butter on my braid and twist outs, which give my hair my styles some hold and helps seal in the moisture.

What do you love most about your hair?

I like the versatility of natural hair. I am able to do a range of styles with body and thickness which I couldn’t have done with relaxed hair. My hair seems to be stronger without the chemicals and breaks less often too.


What was the manner in which you BC’d?

I didn’t have the traditional big chop, but I started cutting about an inch or so every month once I hit about 15 months post relaxer. I was completely relaxer free by July 24, 2011, which was about 18 months post relaxer.

List any opposition/problems you faced along the way.

In the beginning my mom was only in favor of me going natural, if I continued to straighten my hair with a flat iron or a pressing comb. I had to show her the beauty of different natural hairstyles on youtube and forums and explain to her that I was embracing the natural me and how my hair would be healthier. It was definitely a rough road, but she eventually caught on, and is now natural too.


Any advice for the newly natural ladies out there?

I think deep conditioning is very important in order to keep my hair moisturized. I deep condition my hair every other week and I spray my hair with water in between washes to moisturize my hair. In the beginning when I first became natural I had trouble doing braid and twist outs. It always came out different, and sometimes asymmetrical, every time I did it. I found a style that I could do, no matter how my braid and twist outs came out, which was a puff, and that helped me through the bad hair days.

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A comment from trell made under my recent La Jay post:

Although, this really looks great with your hair. I wander what is the purpose of being natural if your not going to wear your hair out. I know you have to protect it sometimes,because I wear wigs every now and then,but I enjoy wearing my hair out alot also. It just seems you protect your hair alot. If I am wrong I apologize.

Trell, there is definitely no need to apologize. In fact, I appreciate the honesty :)  I wouldn’t call you necessarily “wrong”, just that your reasoning does not apply to me.I do understand where you’re coming from because I was of the same mind when I first considered going natural.

You see, my opinion now is what is the purpose of being natural if I don’t explore all of the styles available to me? I am blessed to be a part of a race whose hair is so unique that it can accomplish styles like no other. Only with my natural hair could I do these twists, fingercoils, and other styles.

Secondly, just as you enjoy wearing your hair out, I enjoy my twists. And isn’t that what it’s about? Enjoying your hair! Whether it’s wearing it out or keeping it braided.

Lastly, protective styling is just easier and better for the health of my hair. I can be pretty lazy sometimes, so it’s wonderful just to be able to wake up, perhaps spray on some moisturizer, and head out the door. My hair looks great with very little effort and I know that is pretty well protected.

A comment from Vanessa:

Hi Kcurly,

I stumbled onto this site in my search for a way to style my hair (and I’m glad). I am currently transitioning from relaxed to natural hair. My last relaxer was done in April 2011 and since then I found a natural hair care stylist who has been helping me transition. He did my first real cut about two weeks ago. After I gained 4″ in new growth he cut some of the relaxed hair out. He said as I get more new growth he will continue to cut the relaxed hair out until a have nothing but natural hair.

I love you story and I wanted to know the time period between each picture from the big chop?

Also, I am going on a Caribbean vacation in Feb. 2012 for my birthday and I have NO clue as to what to do with my hair. Where I live is too expensive to do braid extensions or a weave. I want to go in my transitioning state, but I do not want to look like a ‘tele-tubby’ on the beach and I haven’t had much experience styling and handling my hair because 9 times out of 10 I go to the salon and let my ‘transitioning stylist’ handle it.

Is there any way of styling my hair that you can recommend?

Vanessa

Vanessa, thanks for reading and congrats on transitioning!

I’ll start with your vacation. First, can I come with you? Second, if you can’t get braids, how about getting some cornrows (no extensions)?

I had a friend who went on a trip to Jamaica and in every picture she had her cornrows pulled back into a low bun with a big pretty flower to decorate it. It was beautiful. Another possibility would be bantu knots. 

I know you don’t have much time until your vacation but, if you’re wanting to stop being so dependent on your stylist, there are plenty of great tutorials on YouTube for braids with extensions.

Ok, on to my growth. Here is a mini timeline. I BC’d at the end of April 2008 and started transitioning in the Fall of 2007.

Big Chop April 30th, 2008

May 2008

September 2008

April 2009

October 2009

January/February 2010

May 2011 (stretched)

May 2011 (shrunken)

November 2011

So there you have it. But please remember that everyone’s hair grows differently and the length I’ve achieved in this time period may not be what you achieve…you may even achieve more! You can see more pictures of my growth in my Fotki. Hope that helps!

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Mucho thanks to Natasha for showing us the versatility of natural hair! I love both the straight and curly! See more of Natasha on her blog, YouTube, and Twitter.

How long did you transition?

It took me about a year and half to fully transition

What styles did you transition with?

I went the unconventional way and pressed my hair about 50% of the time throughout my natural hair journey. It was easier to maintain, and I liked the bone straight look. When I realized that the constant heat was damaging my hair I started to experiment with braid outs and became a flat twist loyalist!

What are your favorite products so far?

My staple products include: Macadamia Deep Conditioning Hair Masque, Giovanni deep conditioner, Aubrey organics honey suckle conditioner and shikaki all natural shampoo bar and OF COURSE all natural 100 percent pure vatika coconut oil

What do you love most about your hair?

I love the versatility that it gives me! I still rock my hair straight from time to time and the fact that it transforms into long, silky bouncy hair makes me love it even more!

Was the manner in which you BC’d?

I didn’t BC. Instead I did an asymmetrical bob and cut off the majority of my permed hair in the back and retained some length in the front. I would get my hair cut every three months (At least 3-4 inches) and within a year and a half I was completely natural.

List any opposition/problems you faced along the way.

Learning how to style my hair was a huge frustration in the beginning. I had no idea how to braid or flat twist, so I always had to turn to a friend to get my hair done. I decided enough was enough and started experimenting with my own hair. With time, I got better and I love doing my hair myself now!

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You may remember the lovely Khaya: a lovely teen with a lovely newly natural head of hair. Her mom, Maria, was kind enough to send us an update!

Hi KCurly,

Here is an updated pic of Khaya after her big chop. She loves her hair but misses it. It’s growing fast!

Maria

Thanks Maria and Khaya! It certainly is growing!

Here’s Alex with a video about how to get a Badu ‘fro without heat….even with straight ends!

Hey,

I’m sure you get a million emails a day so I’ll keep it short. I wanted to share a video with you and all my other naturals out there. My hair story is somewhat unique in that, I’ve never actually had a perm or texturizer. I’ve been natural all my life, yet I still had to transition about a year ago from heat damage. Having been used to having long hair all my life, and with the texture in the back of my hair pretty much intact, I refused to BC. Thus, I found all sorts of ways to disguise my straight ends and texture my hair. That unfortunate event opened up a whole new world to me when it came to discovering the versatility of my hair. Hair typng has really become a moot point to me, since with the right product selection and styling technique, I’ve been able to achieve pretty much any texture under the sun.

My video demonstrates how I get a huge Erykah Badu style fro, with absolutely NO heat- straight ends and all. I think it will be a huge help to those transitioning AND women natural who are all looking for a way to rock that showstopper fro. Some of my favorite products are Jane Carter’s spray leave in, Trader Joe’s shampoo and conditioner and my homemade shea butter and alor mixtures. I’ll include a picture, and the link to the video. I hope you like it!

Alex! I do indeed like it! Very nice and I’m sure it will be of help to a lot of people! Thanks for sharing!

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Teen Encounters

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Readers Share- Lakeah

August 1, 2009

Hi Kcurly, I just want to say that I really truly enjoy your web page. It is very informative. I am in the process of going natural for the 2nd time. I went natural about 3 years ago, and did the BC after about 5 mths. Well because I hadn’t done much research, once my [...]

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The Stages of My Mental Transition–Natural Evolution

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